Saturday, March 24, 2018

March Facebook-isms

March 5th:
Family Home Evening was more success than fail this evening. That is not often the case lately, so we’ll take it!

March 18th:

Fun little Facebook quiz - 
• Favorite smell - homemade bread, or movie theater popcorn
• First Job - babysitting?
• Favorite pizza - Spinach bacon artichoke with white sauce
• Birthday - July 29th
• Favorite dog - Collies or Golden Retrievers
• Favorite foot attire - flip flops
• Roller Coasters - Yes, but less so than 15 years ago...
• Crowd or solitude - Some of both
• Favorite ice cream - butter pecan
• Ideal vacation - Something Disney-ish
• Shorts or Jeans- skirts
• Surgeries - wisdom teeth, c-section
• Color of eyes - blue
• Favorite holiday - Christmas
• Night owl or Morning - Night owl
• Want to skydive - Some. Less since I had kids.
• Tattoos - No, thanks.
• Do you like to cook? - Not so much
• Can you drive a manual shift - Nope
• Do you like vegetables - Some
• Do you wear glasses - No
• Favorite season - fall
• Favorite vacation - In recent years, San Francisco with Jeremy

March 19th:
Just scheduled well-child appointments and dental appointments for all 5 kids over the next month. Do I get a sticker or something for that? (Or not until I actually get them to all these appointments?)

March 24th:
At Dinner tonight:
Reilly: "Mom, these are my favorite way you have made these."
Me: (thinking he was talking about the chicken fajita meat I had spent an hour preparing/cooking) "Oh, really? The chicken?"
Reilly: "No, the green beans."
Me: "Reilly, I literally just dumped those out of a can and stuck them in the microwave."
#cookingforpickykidslife

Also in March:
We took a trip to Pima, since we had the option of a big place to stay one last time before David and Nicole are going to be living at my parents' house for the next year. It was great to go visit my Grandma, let the kids spend some time with Abbie, and we spent a few hours visit with my cousin Leisel's family at my Aunt Joyce's house, which was really fun. Of course, being Irish (adopted, in my case, haha) we had to break out our St. Patrick's day pride. ;-)



Saturday, September 2, 2017

Traditions of our Fathers

My first memory of missing a “holiday” on Mt. Graham (other than a few fire closures) was when I was 15. I was at Disney World for a national school competition over the 4th of July weekend, and I was excited to be there, but pretty broken up about missing out on everything. For me, 4th of July has less association with fireworks and barbecues, and more with campfire smoke, huge potluck dinners, cousins, and church services surrounded by pine trees. Until our family got too big and we started splitting the two holidays each summer, there were very few 4ths or Labor Days that we weren’t at the cabin. I did live in Iowa and then Virginia for a few years with my own little family, and we missed a lot of those, but still made a few!  It is such a long ingrained family tradition of spending at least part (if not as much as possible) of each summer at the mountain, that it almost hurts to be anywhere else during those times.


There are so many families that have so many great memories and traditions on Mt. Graham, but of course the ones I know the most about are mine. :)
My great-great-grandfather, Hyrum Weech, who immigrated from England, talks about his experience with Mt. Graham in his autobiography, “Our Pioneer Parents.” In 1882 (exactly a century before I was born) he and John Campbell first went up into one of the canyons of the mountain, looking for a likely spot for a lumber mill. He wrote, “By hard climbing, we went up on top of the mountain and found it to be a beautiful park of groves of pine timber, with open glades of grass and flowers. We camped for the night and found it quite cool to what it had been in the valley.”  They explored along the crest and high peak, where there was a monument of loose stones, and a can with only the names of government surveyors who had been there 10 years earlier. They added their names.  They did help found a mill there, and mentioned building a cabin in “Camp Columbine,” where they spent the summers.



He moved his family to Oregon in 1903, but my great-grandfather, David Henry Weech, soon decided to come back to Pima and continued to spend time on Mt. Graham. Hyrum returned to Arizona around 1918, and mentioned building another log cabin at Camp Columbine so they could continue to summer there.  It was built in 1921, and I think it’s the one that’s still there and in use. “A History of Mount Graham,” (assembled by my grandparents, Bertell and Cherrel Weech) tells about how they kept cows and chickens, made butter and cheese, grew gardens, and lived off the land up in the tops of the mountain, avoiding the heat of the valley.

I was surprised to learn (re-learn? My grandma probably told us about it some point) that the area we have cabins in now, “the Flat” at Columbine, was originally where the forest service headquarters were. The big cabin in the flat (the Bulan Weech family cabin) was built in 1938-9 by David Henry Weech and Bertell Weech.  
David Henry Weech

Bertell, my grandpa, added his cabin, on the hill overlooking the flat in 1947. I have many great memories in that old cabin and can picture its layout and the details of it vividly. My first Labor Day at Columbine was when I was just 6 weeks old! I remember that my Grandpa Weech spent as much time as he could at the cabin every summer, and I also remember how hard it was for him once his health made it too risky to go up much anymore. My other grandparents, Darell and Kathy Cluff, also had a cabin in upper? Columbine, which now belongs to my aunt Sondra and Uncle Reuben, so I had cousins on both sides to spend time with. I have some great memories from their cabin too. I need to take a picture of that one, because for some reason I don't have one, I don't think. 


The old cabin was struggling a little, and in 1994, my dad rebuilt a new cabin in its place that we enjoy today. It had a little more space, and is a little more comfortable, and we love it! 

I appreciate my parents' efforts to take us up so often, and all the hard work (and money) they've put into making sure we had lots of time at the cabin as kids and as adults with our own kids. I have so many great memories and experiences of Columbine and of the surrounding areas:  Building forts, playing (and fighting, haha) with countless first and second and probably third cousins.  Constructing things in the creek and making mud pies and leaf creations. Hiking to the tower at Webb Peak, or down to check out the old Mill machinery. Riding in the back to the truck to Soldier Creek, the ice caves, Rigg’s Lake, the lookout, and down to the Bible Camp to pick raspberries. Hours spent on tire swings. Too many baths in that old four-footed bathtub by lantern light to count.  Most of my fishing experiences (thanks to my mom) happened at Rigg’s, and I think the only times I’ve actually slept in a tent were just behind the cabin when it was over-full.  There were campfires, outside picnics, motorcycle rides, and tours at the telescopes. We had spirit-filled Sunday morning fast and testimony meetings and Saturday night potlucks and dances (with all those cousins…) up on the old LDS church cabin foundation. We ate marshmallows, fried chicken (or hamburgers), pancakes that are somehow SO much better up there, my grandpa’s homemade noodles and dumplings, watermelon, hot cocoa, and homemade ice cream churned at Uncle Carl’s. We battled with rubber band guns, heated card games, and games of Sow. There were explorations and discoveries and snipe hunts, baseball games that went on for hours, and now Frisbee games for the younger generation. There were awe-inspiring close encounters with bears , squirrels, deer and hummingbirds.  In the winter we even got to experience real snow and snowshoeing into the cabin. The sunsets, the smell of pine, the sound of the creek, stars so close you feel like you can reach out and touch them.  So much beauty, and so much history. One of the parts I treasure the most is the opportunity to be with and get to know so many great uncles and aunts, and extended cousins that I probably wouldn’t even know about, much less have memories with if it weren’t for Mt. Graham.

It is much harder as an adult to be the one in charge of packing, (and packing and packing) and coordinating, and –trying- to get my city kids to sleep in the dark and the silence, and to go outside and play. The experiences I’ve had there as an adult aren’t quite as memorable and poignant as the ones I made as a child (except finally getting the experience to hike up Ash Creek with my dad two years ago. That was amazing!)  It isn’t always easy to transmit a piece of that history and family foundation. But I am trying, because Columbine is so much a part of me, and of who I am, and of my experiences.  I feel like a piece of my soul (one of the calmer, more relaxed, more youthful ones) is permanently embedded there. Which is why, on this Labor Day weekend, I am missing it so fiercely.



I didn’t get the opportunity to go up last summer, being hugely pregnant, and partially on bed rest. My wonderful husband (who tries hard to love the mountains and all that it entails, which I appreciate!) took our four small children up for the 4th, so they could at least make it up once and be with their cousins. This summer we had two trips planned, and I was so looking forward to Labor Day especially. Instead, we had a forest fire. A really big one that left us hoping and praying and worrying for weeks at a time. Our cabins were spared, and we are amazingly grateful. But so much was lost that I’m sad about. Webb Peak may never be the same. So many beautiful trees were lost. I know the mountain will regrow and be fine in the long run. But I think I was really looking forward to visiting in person and seeing the damage, and the undamaged, with my own eyes. I know we should be able to go up next summer, and that many traditions and experiences will continue on unchanged, but until I make it back, something is missing.


Tuesday, August 15, 2017

Summer wrap-up and School Start

The last few weeks of summer weren't boring. We had a huge rainstorm or two right at the first of August, which were really fun, but weren't good for all the repairs happening on our house. There had also been a handyman restoring some wood stuff on the back of the addition recently. He finished a few days before the big storm, but when it happened, the whole back addition started leaking like crazy! I was actually at the store when it happened, and when I walked in the door, water was streaming off the top of our built in storage cupboards under the window. And the older kids were there watching TV, and totally oblivious. Nothing much was ruined, but it was really a mess. I had to call the handyman that had done the work and ask "what the heck happened?" He had finished it that week! He said sometimes the sealant just doesn't seal, and promised to be there the next day to fix it. Slight eyeroll, but I'm grateful for that way-more-than-usual storm that pointed out the problem so impressively, because a slow leak from normal rain might not have been detected so easily. We haven't had any issue with it yet, thankfully. However, with that same rain, we also had a lot more leaking in the bathroom that we could see. We were thankful we hadn't had someone come to redo the drywall and texturing already! We might not have seen the leaking there, or it might have been ruined. Little blessings in disguise. The roof people came back to try again too, and decided maybe it was leaking around the drainpipe. Fun times!




At the same time as they were trying to work on our kids' bathroom, our toilet suddenly stopped working. The drain in the shower /toilet had been randomly backing up for months, but always worked itself out eventually. Not this time. At which time our other toilet was sitting out back, completely disconnected. More fun times! We ended up using the bathrooms over at the church a couple times that day, (thankfully Jeremy had a key) while two plumbers worked for like 5 hours. And they couldn't fix it. They put the other toilet back on for us to use over the weekend and had to come back Monday. But we had no shower during that time period. Thankfully Phil and Sophie were kind enough to let us shower at their house. It took another 6-8 hours (and a $1200 bill) and a bunch of different snakes and router things before they finally got it working again. They didn't know what the problem was, except maybe the cast iron plumbing had built up a lot of corrosion and things were getting stuck on their way through. They also discovered one of the copper pipes behind the toilet (they had opened up the wall to try to figure out what was up) basically fell apart when the pushed on it. Here's hoping if it has lots of friends, that they don't give up the ghost until after we're out of this house... Every once in a while the shower/toilet still backs up a little. I pray it continues to work itself out, because I don't want it to cost our landlady any more hundreds of dollars, and I don't want us to have to deal with it again!


The bathroom did eventually get drywalled, taped, and textured, and I spent a lot of a week (I'm not very fast, since I've never done it before) painting both bathrooms. It's not perfect, but it looks a whole lot better than it did, and it's so nice to have two working bathrooms.


School started on the 9th, which was a little crazy. Reilly is homeschooling again this year, and going to Eagleridge (a homeschool enrichment program) on Wednesdays. It's kind of nice to have him home for the most part, since it gives me a touch more flexiblity if I need to run somewhere for a few minutes while Bridget is asleep, or leave him and Shawn watching a movie for a bit while Bridget and I run somewhere. He loves Eagleridge and enjoys going there. The girls are still at Franklin and enjoying it. We have been lucky to get great teachers so far! (Shawn's sign lies - he hasn't actually been interested in almost any preschool work so far, though he already knows his alphabet and most of his numbers somehow...


And a few more pictures, just for fun.








Sunday, July 30, 2017

"The rain came down and the floods came up"

So, it's been a long month. Jeremy's been working hard getting his office up and running, There have been lots of setbacks and frustrations, and his x-ray equipment is still a headache and not fully functional. It's been exciting, but nerve-wracking and frustrating at the same time. It would probably be easier if he could just concentrate on that, but we've had other craziness going on with our townhouse. (Well, we rent, but still, we try to take care of everything that we can in exchange for really good rent.)


A large branch from the big olive tree out front fell on our roof and within a few days it rained and the kids' bathroom started leaking. The HOA's roof guy said it wasn't the tree's fault and that roof just needed to be resurfaced.
 So they did that, and then last week the kids and I ended up staying at my mom's for 5 days while they expensively and messily removed all the wet sheet rock, which was full of 60's asbestos. And the bathroom has been sitting all torn apart since then, which has been exciting. Really looking forward to it all getting sorted out, but I’m not sure when that will be!





We have had a busy month in general though. Summer life with 5 kids is a little much for me! We have tried to stay busy, though. I was sad to not have the option of going to the cabin on 4th of July with all the fires. We're still worried about those, but hopefully our cabin will continue to be safe. :-/ We didn't do too much celebrating, but went to our ward's 4th of July breakfast at the Melser's, and did sparklers with the kids that night. I just wish it got dark a little earlier. It would be more fun that way, but our kids go to bed pretty early usually. Bridget was already in bed and didn't get to see them.



Towards the beginning of the month we also met up at Mesquite Groves Aquatic Center to help celebrate Chloe's birthday. My kids always love that place, and it's pretty cheap to get in. If it wasn't like a 35-40 minute drive we would definitely go more often!


Abbie was down here visiting when we did our traditional Chik-Fil-A fun.  We went for a pretty early lunch and it wasn't too crazy yet. I'm had to quickly make a shirt for Bridget this year, but otherwise the prep was already done from my sewing last year!


We had the opportunity to attend a double funeral for my great-Aunt Karen and great-Uncle Kent, and it was a great experience. I learned a lot about them that I didn't know before, and it was nice to spend some time with extended family.


We used the trip to Urban Jungle on our POGO passes, and the kids love that place! It was a little crazy trying to pseudo-keep track of all of them, especially with Bridget and Shawn to watch, but they all had a really great time. We should go again sometime!

And then one of the biggest events of the month: Bridget turned 1! So exciting and crazy! We had a fun relaxed day for her birthday, and did cake and candles that night with just family. Jeremy also got some light-up balloons that they all had a blast playing with.


Our second Bridget-celebration was a couple days later, when we were in Pima. It was more of a party then, with some grandparents and cousins. Both times were fun.  It's always nice to spend time in Pima, but with every child we've added, packing has grown more hectic, and... it's just a lot to travel anywhere. I'm hoping that will ease a little as they all grow and can do a little more packing for themselves. What do you think? :)


The other eventful thing that happened during that trip is that we found out Spencer was returning from his mission in Tampico, Mexico. He had some things he decided he needed to take care of better before he continued. That was hard, but good, and it was great to see him. I was glad that I got to be there when he came home, at least for a day or so, since we ended up extending our trip a day or two because of the crazy bathroom stuff. It is just such a mess!



So I spent my 35th birthday packing everything BACK up, and driving home with 5 kids. Not quite what I had hoped for... I tried not be sad about it, but I was a little bummed. When I got home, though, Jeremy sent me to the Gilbert temple (the Mesa one was closed briefly) and I got some (free) dinner at Joe's Farm Grill, which is also super tasty. And I got myself a piece of cheesecake to celebrate my birthday, which was pretty exciting, since I have been trying really hard to start losing this baby/nursing weight the last couple months since Bridget finished nursing. I haven't been having -any- desserts, and that cheesecake was amazing! Between that and the peace of the temple, it was a nice end to a crazy day, and I appreciated it!


Thursday, July 6, 2017

Nobody actually reads blogs anymore, right?

I like Facebook. But I spend way too much time there accomplishing almost nothing, and use a lot of emotional energy empathizing with people that are having a hard time, or reading random facts about other people I barely know in real life (or don't know at all, really). I miss blogging. I miss lots of people having blogs. I enjoyed reading what people were up to, seeing their cute pictures, and getting a glimpse into their life. I don't know many people that still blog regularly, and I don't think I'll become one of them. Five kids has kind of done me in. So many things I used to enjoy, or at least used to get done at a decen pace, have fallen by the wayside... Katy pulled out her first year scrapbook the other day and I realized it wasn't done. It's like 1/3 done. And she just turned 7. Sigh.
I don't know why five has been so much harder (it seems) than four. Maybe because Katy was a year older than Shawn when she was born. Maybe because there was just a touch bit more space for four little people in our 3-bedroom rental than there is for five. I really don't know.






Nursing went better with Bridget than with Shawn, (not having a c-section or tongue tie helped a TON) but there was still lots of worrying and donor milk and supplementing and pumping. She was getting a few extra oz a day of donor milk until about 2-3 months until she decided bottles were not for her and she refused to take them anymore. And then I worried about her very slow weight gain and nursed and nursed and nursed and had to eat a ton of food to keep my milk supply even adequate for the next 4 months until she finally decided to take a bottle again at 7 months. By 9.5 months she was completely on formula (Nutramigen) since my supply declined rapidly once we started supplementing again, and I have been mostly just relieved. I am so grateful I was able to nurse her so much and give all of them a good start, but I sincerely hope I never have to try to nurse another baby. And I pray my girls won't have the same trouble I did when they have babies of their own someday!







We sent my little brother, Spencer, off on a mission to Tampico, Mexico in November. It was really awesome to be together with all my siblings in the temple the month before that, and it has been cool to see how much he has grown and matured in the last year or two as he has prepared for this. I still can't believe he's all grown and off saving China, since I was almost 16 when he was born, and helped raise him quite a bit for the first 4 years of his life before I transferred to BYU. It was especially fun to have David surprise most of us and fly home from Kentucky (where he's been going to medical school) when we were all there for Spencer's farewell. Spencer has been out like 8-ish months now, and he's doing awesome.



One of our biggest adventures of the last year was our family trip to Disneyland. It had been almost 4 years since we had taken the kids, and they have been asking to go back ever since. For some reason I thought going with a 4-month old wouldn't be too bad, since they're still pretty portable at that age, and Shawn was still free until last mid-December, so we decided to do it the week after Thanksgiving. We got an AirBnb with two bedrooms/2 bathrooms and a living area so we'd have plenty of space, sprung for 4-day tickets, so we could take our time, and loaded up an amazing amount of stuff into our Honda Odyssey (which I love) and headed to California. (A good friend lent us her double jogging stroller, so we didn't have to try to pack ours) Our kids had a blast, mostly, and have great memories from our trip, and ask when we're going back. But Jeremy and I are a bit traumatized. The first day, instead of being the Best. Day. Ever. (like our first trip) was pretty rough, starting when Shawn woke at 3:30 AM local time and the other 3 olders woke at 4:30. And nobody went back to sleep or napped. Ever. And Jeremy was sick with a bad cold the whole time, and just tried to soldier through as much as he could. I think the latest we managed to stay one night was about 7:30 PM maybe. We barely made rope drop (and it was at like 10 am most days), never saw any fireworks, Bridget was too stimulated to nurse well half the time, but wouldn't sleep out and about unless Jeremy was wearing her (not me) and were an exhausted mess (the parents) by the time we were done. And my, was it expensive. But we rode everything we wanted to (usually several times), including the misses from the first trip. Reilly and Jaina were both tall enough for Screamin' (one loved it, one hated it). All three older kids got to do the Jedi Training Academy, and they -loved- Hyperspace Mountain. Shawn loved all of it, and had a blast, and only got lost once. We enjoyed all the holiday decor, and got to experience the holiday versions of Small World, Jungle Cruise, and Haunted Mansion. Bridget did pretty awesome, other than not nursing well, and I got to check out both baby care areas. We managed to see the parade, though getting a seat was a little iffy. We got a ton of cute pictures, and made some more memories for the kids. Jeremy said we need to go back, just the two of us, so he can remember that he likes Disneyland again though.

















As soon as we got back from Disney, we jumped back in the car and headed to Flagstaff for a fun Polar Express experience that Abbie had planned for the kids for part of their Christmas. They had a great time, and we enjoyed it. We probably would have enjoyed it more if we hadn't been so exhausted, but it was fun to go up in the cold and see some snow and be together with Jeremy's family.



Our other big adventure in the last few months has been Jeremy moving his chiropractic business into his own office. It has been quite the endeavor, and has been very exciting and fairly nerve-wracking. It's hard to take on all the debt and responsibility of being in charge of your own office, and hope that things continue to go well and you can pay all the bills and still have enough left over to take care of all your family's needs. It has been fun, but I also look forward to being a year or two forward in this process and having all the dust (literally) settled.








This summer has been a little overwhelming for me so far. Okay, a lot overwhelming. There are lots of wants and needs and questions and arguments and kids wanting to go-and-do all the time. And with 5 kids (including a baby), in this heat, I don't feel much up to going-and-doing. Things kind of came to a head a week or two ago when we had Cub Scout day camp (I was called to be a wolf leader earlier this year) and I ended up doing a lot of the coordinating. I think my coping skills just got maxed out, and it was harder for me to not yell at the kids and spend a lot of time wishing everyone would just leave me alone and stop talking to me. I'm working on my self a lot, and taking time for quiet, and creating, and the scriptures, and writing out my feelings (on paper!?) so they can get released little by little and not explode in frustrated little thunderclouds. Hopefully it will help, because there are only 5 weeks of summer left, and I want us to have some more good times.